I got started with my personal journey in Kink/Sex Work by wanting to be 100 percent self aware and okay with myself. This led me to understand that I crave a strong a healthy foundation physically, sexually and mentally.
Reaching out to others and doing all I can to gain that knowledge made me realize that I wanted to be like the ones that helped me.

why?

It's constantly changed my life and mindset for the better!

The people that it surrounds me with, all the new communication skills I've learned and the way its allowed me to do the same for others have been extremely self nurturing.

Being in a position with a voice, I choose  to put power to it!

Growing and learning all I can about myself as a daily routine has been teaching me that I walk on eggshells frequently...
Specifically,

at times I can't maintain my own mental, physical and sexual health. It really brought on many negative thoughts and feelings. I learned the hard way that it is OKAY to have bad days!

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Learning that taught me one of the most valuable things I own is my time...I control how I manage it!

I took that mindset and started again!
Made sure I had time to recover from trying new things...I really settled into my bad days to understand how I could possibly help myself heal.

Again and again I went down the long path of learning, processing and healing from bad days in a healthy manor.... Until I found coping mechanisms that actively changed my responses to specific traumas for the better!

I will be honest, it never stops being scary.

Deciding to share the things I've learned has helped me to learn how to help others learn how to help themselves.

Who knew that being so self invasive would end up helping the many suffering from trauma in the dark!?

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My goal is to teach people that they can help themselves and others too!

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Lets heal together, I'm gonna be "That Girl" and recommend Kink Modeling or different forms of Sex Work as way to learn different things about your body that you never knew you could love, as well as how to behave and treat yourself in a promiscuous environment. Remember!

Trauma free Pleasure is the goal so take things slow and respect your boundaries.

Invasive thoughts, zoning out and loss of control physically or mentally are some warning signs I've learned that tell me i need to take a break and heal from the new things I've experimented with.